Wednesday, May 07, 2008

Somethings you should know... and I thought...

A pretty good conversation that everyone should learn from. That's what I thought.



frAnCo^ says: (11:38:51 AM)

that is why i should go for her?

frAnCo^ says: (11:38:57 AM)
nonit lov d ah?

Blankard! says: (11:41:15 AM)
dear.... u're killing me

frAnCo^ says: (11:41:48 AM)
arent that your responsibility?

frAnCo^ says: (11:42:30 AM)
k la

frAnCo^ says: (11:42:36 AM)
let u go la

frAnCo^ says: (11:42:49 AM)
going out soon to bank

frAnCo^ says: (11:43:08 AM)
if got time grab some cup cakes n deliver to XXXXXX

frAnCo^ says: (11:43:12 AM)
:P

frAnCo^ says: (11:43:18 AM)
u want some?

Blankard! says: (11:43:26 AM)
deliver for her for wat???

Blankard! says: (11:43:29 AM)
u haven't tell me yet

frAnCo^ says: (11:43:31 AM)
saja

frAnCo^ says: (11:43:36 AM)
no reason

Blankard! says: (11:43:40 AM)
i'm jealous

frAnCo^ says: (11:44:00 AM)
why pulak

Blankard! says: (11:44:21 AM)
cos u're doing so much for her when she's not even ur gf yet

frAnCo^ says: (11:44:50 AM)
hmmmmmmmm still u should b supportive instead

Blankard! says: (11:44:58 AM)
but i'm jealous

frAnCo^ says: (11:45:01 AM)
why

Blankard! says: (11:45:10 AM)
cos i'm jealous

Blankard! says: (11:45:22 AM)
cos u do sweet things to her

Blankard! says: (11:45:25 AM)
not me

Blankard! says: (11:45:28 AM)
*roars*

frAnCo^ says: (11:45:38 AM)
i bought u nice lunch

Blankard! says: (11:45:45 AM)
that's ur job

frAnCo^ says: (11:45:51 AM)
aiseh

Blankard! says: (11:45:55 AM)
u din do extra stuff oso

frAnCo^ says: (11:47:08 AM)
wat is consider extra liao?

Blankard! says: (11:47:26 AM)
getting me stuff without me asking

Blankard! says: (11:47:29 AM)
like how she gets it

frAnCo^ says: (11:47:37 AM)
muahahhhahha

Blankard! says: (11:47:51 AM)
it's true wat

Blankard! says: (11:47:56 AM)
all guys are stupid actually

Blankard! says: (11:47:58 AM)
idiotic

frAnCo^ says: (11:48:10 AM)
she is different

frAnCo^ says: (11:48:19 AM)
i m pursuing her

frAnCo^ says: (11:48:29 AM)
so she gets extra

frAnCo^ says: (11:48:32 AM)
fair right?

Blankard! says: (11:48:54 AM)
no

Blankard! says: (11:48:59 AM)
why did i had to do so much

Blankard! says: (11:49:10 AM)
when u r re-paying it to other girls?

Blankard! says: (11:49:22 AM)
the privillege should be sharon chin

frAnCo^ says: (11:49:29 AM)
dear that is history d

Blankard! says: (11:49:30 AM)
not sharon chan or XXXXX chin or watever

frAnCo^ says: (11:49:58 AM)
both of us had learn from each other

frAnCo^ says: (11:50:06 AM)
we had grown

frAnCo^ says: (11:50:22 AM)
u had bcome more resposible, mature....

Blankard! says: (11:50:36 AM)
say la lady like and pretty

frAnCo^ says: (11:50:52 AM)
i still getting 2 b more sensiteve

frAnCo^ says: (11:50:57 AM)
caring............

frAnCo^ says: (11:51:12 AM)
u r pretty n hottie all this while

Blankard! says: (11:51:23 AM)
u r sensitive and caring

Blankard! says: (11:51:33 AM)
it's just that some times u need a kick in the butt

Blankard! says: (11:51:43 AM)
u were just cold cos u tot i was a small kiddie

Blankard! says: (11:51:56 AM)
and too bad la, u dated a scorpio. she remembers everything.....

frAnCo^ says: (11:52:06 AM)
hahahahah

frAnCo^ says: (11:52:26 AM)
seriuyosly back then u were just too young

frAnCo^ says: (11:52:40 AM)
thought mentally n physically u r not

frAnCo^ says: (11:52:57 AM)
still...........its hard when i was dating a 19 yr old

Blankard! says: (11:53:45 AM)
well, like i said, u dated a scorpio...

Blankard! says: (11:54:10 AM)
she has everything in mind. repaying or repolishing is not a solutioin to the relationship anymore....

Blankard! says: (11:54:15 AM)
i see guys have something in common

Blankard! says: (11:54:50 AM)
once they get the girl, they would thought if they're not cheating means they're still love their gfs

Blankard! says: (11:55:33 AM)
what i always try to tell every fucking guy is, when u love someone, u will always think of her... no matter how stress u can be.... and u know, she's always the person that u will turn to if u need someone

Blankard! says: (11:55:56 AM)
be it stress, or something funny happen, ur gf is the person she should be the first to know everything

Blankard! says: (11:56:25 AM)
if u tell someone else first, u're thinking and seeing around....

frAnCo^ says: (11:56:58 AM)
forget about getting the guyys to understand that

frAnCo^ says: (11:57:14 AM)
it will never happen

Blankard! says: (11:57:36 AM)
y not

frAnCo^ says: (11:57:49 AM)
guys will b guys , girls will b girls

frAnCo^ says: (11:58:10 AM)
when u guy understand how a girl think

frAnCo^ says: (11:58:18 AM)
that bcomes gay

Blankard! says: (11:58:23 AM)
nop

frAnCo^ says: (11:58:50 AM)
u can try....wish u luck.........

frAnCo^ says: (11:59:36 AM)
though i understand what u meant......i will not blindly follows
thank you



The moral of this conversation is :-

  1. Don't take your partner for granted.
  2. You will subconsciously repay your wrong doing to ur future partner. So do not say, "I have changed. I was bad... Now I'm better. Don't turn me back to that old me." Well, if you are changing for your previous partner, bare in mind, your current partner or future partner might not need this. You should change for the better of yourself. Not for the better of what had happened to your previous relationship as your previous partner expects you to be changing for them. And your current partner need this unnecessary change. And it's not fair for your current partner to get blamed for your wrong doing in previous relationship!
  3. Perhaps you should interpret your own meaning of love before you start a relationship and let your partner know what your "love" means. So that he/she doesn't need to complain over and over again during the relationship. Be it "My interpretation of love means, we should be sharing things together. At the same time, I should have my own space." Go ahead and say it, before it's too late to complain or regret!
  4. Learn from your past relationship!
  5. Beware and becareful when you're dating a Scorpio girl *smirks*

So much for today. I'm done with venting my anger. I'm done with feeling lost. I am going to go out there to search for my answers!!!

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

Everybody is unique, everybody is different, some might be similiar but probably its just co-incidence. non can be the same.

We should not judge we should not tell. We should accept & we should appreciate.

I am what I am, you are what you are.
Some people change some people don't.
While some other matured, the rest not so lucky other remains childish.
we need them in order to fill in the quota.
lol.

Be selfish, trust no one.
Accept this true and cruel reality.
Live your life to the max.
Do what you want to do, leave behind what burdens you.
One moment you stopped and think of others, you'll lose that moment forever.
Do it if you think its worth it. If not, :) bwai~
hehehehe

Blankard said...

U're right Reon. I have rested my case for long and I'm actually learning to look forward instead of look back.


I'll never let that moment stop me and lose them forever.


Like the statement u made! Bwai past-ie~